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Do women really need huge diamond engagement rings?

Did you know that most married women would change their engagement rings if they had the opportunity to do so? Sure you do, you would probably do the same. To me, this is quite understandable because women are expected to wear their engagement rings for the rest of their lives, so it’s only natural for them to look for something more convenient. But wait! They are not looking for something more convenient. In fact, most of them are complaining about the size of the stones on their rings. Now this, I don’t understand. How could women be attracted to those tacky huge diamond engagement rings? Not to be rude ladies, but your taste sucks!


Huge diamond engagement rings are not always classy!


huge diamond engagement ringsThink of it this way: huge diamond engagement rings are like the Hummer in the world of jewelry. A Hummer can be pulled off only by few people who are not flashy about it, but for most owners the Hummer (aka huge diamond) is just a way to show the world that they have a lot of money. And it looks ridiculous! It doesn’t mean that your fiancé would love you more if he gave you a ring with a gigantic stone attached to it. I’m sick and tired of this modern sugar babe syndrome. Those huge rings lack class; they are big with the only purpose to be big. Sure, there are some women who can pull off a massive stone, like Elizabeth Taylor for example. Or you, when you are fantasizing about a fairytale. In real life, there is no chance for that huge stone to look impressive on you when you’re in your casual clothes on the way to the local grocery store (this scenario always cracks me up).


Do all women want huge diamond engagement rings?


Contrary to the popular belief, not all women want huge diamond engagement rings and not all of them would love to wear them. I mean, most women would love to have a nice big diamond in their collection, just because diamonds are undeniably beautiful, but I wouldn’t way that every one of us wants a rock the size of Beyonce’s and Kardashian’s (which are far from being classy if you ask me). The obsession with huge diamond rings didn’t start recently. In fact, it all started as ‘vagina insurance’, or collateral for women’s virginity in the past. A woman was once prized for her purity and the man would secure her virginity with a big-ass engagement ring. Does this seem reasonable to you from a modern point of view? No? Then nor does the huge rock!    


Should you go for huge diamond engagement rings?


If you are a soon-to-be-engaged man and you wish for an advice, hear my words: neglect those huge diamond engagement rings and go for something simplistic, yet beautiful and eternally classy. Sure, I’m not saying that you shouldn’t get her a diamond, but make sure it looks reasonable and doesn’t weigh her hand down. There are some lovely, classy engagement rings that don’t look tacky and your woman would love to wear. Of course, if she’s not crazy like the majority of women today. If you ask me, a Japanese-style engagement ring is the most beautiful thing you could ever get for her (especially if it’s crafted with the Mokume Gane technique – now that’s something really unique and special).



Do women really need huge diamond engagement rings?

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